Every pair of mother and child is a life and death. A mother’s tears complained about the campus bullying.

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Editor's note

Recently, Beijing Zhongguancun000931, a parent of the second element of the stock bar posted an article on the Internet, "Every pair of mother and child are life and death, I want to accompany him to the school bullying to say NO! ", smash the circle of friends. The article said that the child has been bullied by classmates for a long time, and the classmates used the toilet garbage basket to buckle the head...

In this regard, Zhongguancun made a statement at noon on the 10th, and did not apologize, did not recognize the management of dereliction of duty, but issued an ultimatum to the outside world as a "victim"! This is not a response but a provocation!

If we don’t stop this “excessive joke” between children, after ten years, walking down the street, there may be a bucket of toilet paper on the face, or someone will say that they want to see your ass. ......

Zhongguancun Second Primary School

Thanks to the long-term concern and support from all walks of life in the society, our school has been conscientiously implementing the spirit of the Ministry of Education, Beijing Municipality and Haidian District Education Committee, and has always adhered to the Lide Shuren, adhering to the concept of the second small school, caring and caring for each school. Students are committed to education and strive to make every student grow up healthy and happy.

Recently, the incidents that occurred between three middle-aged students and parents in our school have aroused the concern of the society. Since its establishment, the school has been actively striving to coordinate and deal with relevant demands and contradictions among parents of several parties objectively and fairly. In the protection of the legitimate rights and interests of every minor child, especially the principle of harmed minors mentioned in the incident, the school will continue to make efforts to achieve multi-party recognition results.

In addition, in response to recent false statements about our school and related events on the Internet, our school reserves the right to maintain the reputation of students and schools through legal channels and to hold the relevant subject responsible.

Here, we sincerely appeal to: the media and the public who care about this matter, from the perspective of protecting the healthy growth of minors and maintaining the normal education order of the school, let the education problems return to the campus for treatment. We sincerely accept the supervision and help from all walks of life!

Zhongguancun Second Primary School, Haidian District, Beijing

December 10, 2016

Event cause

On the 9th, an article entitled "Every pair of mothers and sons is a life and death, I want to accompany him to the school bullying to say NO" is widely distributed online. The author of the article said that he is a mother and his son is a small student in Zhongguancun. He has just turned 10 years old and has encountered school bullying in school.

The article wrote that on November 24, when the son was in the school toilet, two boys in the same class entered the toilet. One of them blocked the door and said, "I want to open the door to see your ass." The other person threw down the garbage basket with toilet paper and urine. "I was lying on my son’s head, and the urine and the rubbed paper spilled. He looked at him. The two boys saw him, hahaha sneered and ran away, less than a minute. After the incident, her son was filthy and cried and cleaned himself. On the same day, the child did not report to the teacher. She and her husband learned about it that night.

The net post also said that the class teacher called the parents to go to the school for interviews. Four teachers, including the class teacher, the school secretary, the vice-president of moral education, and a teacher, the male secretary came up with a slap in the face and shouted loudly, and shook his eyes from time to time. The poor parents took the book and the pen to record the school's handling opinions. This became like a prisoner, without dignity, and it was a point that could not be remembered, because all the points were around her as an excessive parent: the child If the school is injured, the school can't have opinions; and it is wrong to ask the other parents to apologize: I have been attacked by the end and I am an unqualified mother.

Child status

Wang Chuan (pseudonym), the husband of the net author, said that his son had difficulty falling asleep, being irritable, extremely need to be accompanied, and having emotional excitement after encountering this incident. "He will cry because of a particularly small matter, crying several times a day. There are times when I hide under the desk."

The diagnosis provided by Wang Chuan showed that on December 2, the child was diagnosed with acute stress by the Beijing No. 6 Hospital.

Acute stress response (ASD)

It refers to a transient mental disorder that occurs within minutes or hours after a severe or severe traumatic event, usually within a few days or weeks, up to a maximum of one month.

Wang Chuan said that since things have not been resolved, the son still rests at home.

Parental response

Regarding the school's response, the parents involved have not yet made any further statements.

According to the description of the parents in the online post, the following four requirements that she proposed were not recognized by the school.

1. Handling, punishing and violent children;

2. Protect my son from second damage;

3. Apologize to the parents of the perpetrators;

4. The other party bears the corresponding treatment costs.

Attached net post original

Every pair of mother and child is a life and death

I want to accompany him to the school bullying to say NO!

Author Shan Shanyin

The mother who wrote this article is a student of my clinical psychology. Although this matter has been fully discussed in our classmates, I still feel particularly uncomfortable and angry when I see the texts written by her in the whole process!

Most people don't realize how much damage a child's strength can do.

Most people don't realize that campus bullying is far more extensive and frequent than you think.

Borrow a sentence:

"Children are children, not only because they don't have the ability to protect themselves, but also because they have no self-control ability to do evil. You don't tell him that it is evil, he can kill others. You don't tell him to resist, he can be Others are dying."

Today is my son’s tenth birthday, a big day.

He did not go to school early with the stars as usual, but slept to the sun through the curtain gap and stabbed his eyes. After getting out of bed, I drove a little further forward in the fourth ring, and the destination of the navigation was not the school, it was the North Hospital Sixth Hospital.

Long wait, met the doctor, opened a bunch of checklists, took the children upstairs and downstairs in the labyrinth of the clinic, but also need to avoid the schizophrenia that talked to himself and jumped, finally All the reports were taken before the doctor got off work. The female doctor looked at me very helplessly. She should have got off work an hour ago, but when I saw that I was with a report of moderate anxiety and severe depression, she was still very diligent to sit down and write a diagnosis on the medical record: acute Stress response.

"Don't let your child go to school again. It's not so important to study at home for a week. Parents can teach at home. Do not mention this in front of the child. Don't let the child have any pressure. You must go. Take it, go and fix it. Remember! You can't take the child to solve it, you have to protect him. Hey, which of your schools?" The first time I saw a doctor, I heard so many words.

"Which school?"

"Oh, Zhongguancun is two small." I replied like a world, and answered the doctor.

"The same is true of famous schools, hehe!" The doctor's contempt reaction is the greatest empathy for me.

Today, ten years ago, I sacrificed my life to give birth to my son;

Today, ten years ago, my son came to me with a hard time.

Every pair of mother and child is so hard to meet each other .

But I did not protect him.

Last Thursday, during the class, he went to the bathroom to urinate, and then the two boys in the same class followed in, and a door stuck in the door of his compartment shouted: "xxx I have to open the door to see your ass! ”

Because the door lock of that compartment was broken, my son was very afraid. I was afraid that the fat man who had been looking for him would rush in. He wanted to rush out and rush out. At this time, another boy was thrown from the compartment next to him. I dropped a garbage basket and squatted on his head. The urine and the rubbed paper sprinkled him on his face. The two boys saw it, and hahaha sneered and ran away. The whole journey was less than a minute, and in such a short time, no other children were present. This is a space where only him is alone.

He was left alone in the bathroom, when he began to cry, he said that he was too scared , and his face was particularly stinky. Because many boys are naughty, they often pee in the garbage basket.

When he came home and told me all about it, the child had already shaken into a ball. I wanted to comfort him to take him to take a shower. He immediately burst into tears and told me that he had been rushing with cold water for a long time at school. There was no smell. .

In the winter of November, he used cold water to cry and punch, and then had to use a red scarf to dry. He was afraid of being discovered by the students and laughed at him. He had to go to the playground to check the exercise, because he was an individual committee.

God! When I linked the intermittent words that he cried and said, I realized that he had encountered a school bullying in the boys' toilet in the fourth grade.

I immediately called the class teacher and asked the parents of the two children to go to school to solve the problem.

I thought I had done what my mother should do most—protect him. But I did not expect that the road to resolution would be so difficult and long.

The next day, my husband and I arrived at the school with the children, in addition to the parents of the other students, as well as the head teacher and the fourth-grade teaching and research team leader. After the matter was verified, the two children confessed, and the child who reached for the garbage basket was a little scared. He couldn’t say a few complete words.

It is the child who has no hands, clear thinking, accurate words, and support for the hands-on child. "You can safely say, what is said, you are safe here, they dare not treat you, you say go with!"

At a young age, I really admire his courage, so calm in front of the teacher and parents, including explaining that the garbage basket contains paper with Xiang, and explained to me in a mocking tone that Xiang is what he meant.

Ask him what he was doing when he saw the trash basket going down. He said he was laughing because it was ridiculous.

Ask him if he can go back to the time of yesterday, what can you do, he said that I can also stop him (another boy) from throwing garbage baskets.

In the eyes of the child, the facts are clear, but in the mouth of the parents, it becomes a joke. It becomes a bit of mischief when I become a child. When I become a child, there is no limit, and when I become a child, I just don’t understand it. The basket is dirty and not dirty.

However, the teacher also directly defined as "just opened an excessive joke."

joke? Are you sure you are not kidding me?

The parents of the children throwing the basket gave us a verbal apology. Oh, yes, yesterday she said on the phone that it is not worthwhile to go to school. I am sorry to say that you are not satisfied with it?

The child who laughs at the door thinks that he is an eyewitness and pushes all responsibility to the child who throws the basket. His mother is not easy to provoke, always ignoring this matter has nothing to do with their children. Even if his child himself admits to swearing my son's insulting nickname from the third grade, the fourth grade will occasionally push and kick, and interfere with other students to attend classes. She also had to add a sentence to the side, "The teacher heard it clearly. My son said that it was his first move at the back table. He only went back to class." Oh, it turns out that the logic of their home is just a matter of words.

The teacher’s reaction is even more wonderful. Without the sympathy of our victims, I ask the children:

"Why didn't you tell me about this happening? I saw you during the intermission and didn't find anything wrong with you!"

The teacher in charge of the class did not see the emotional changes after the students experienced such a bad attack. Are you too derelict and incompetent? Or should a 10-year-old child win an Oscar winner? Is it full of grievances and fears?

The "guidance" of the teaching and research team leader is even more wonderful. While the children in the fourth grade testify that there is no normal boundary, they tell the parents to teach the children to identify with the attackers, instead of resisting bullying.

This time the communication obviously had no effect. The son thought that parents and teachers could get justice for him, but no.

The teacher thought that bullying was a joke; he did not dare to tell the teacher but was blamed by the teacher.

The two children spent the rest of the day on Friday. They thought they were victorious, because the fat man came out to speak out when the teacher couldn't see it.

On the following Saturday and Sunday, the children refused to sleep at night, and did not want to eat. A little thing would cry, and I wouldn’t dare to sleep alone. It’s hard to fall asleep and wake up... It’s not like three days in a row. I slept, wrote a letter to the principal overnight, and waited at the school gate at 7 o'clock on Monday morning.

I finally met the school principal and the moral education director. After listening to the incident, they guaranteed that the school would solve this problem.

But after school on Monday afternoon, they took me into the lounge, and the four teachers took turns talking to me for three hours. The theme turned out to be the four points that I asked in the letter:

1. Handling, punishing and violent children;

2. Protect my son from second damage;

3. Apologize to the parents of the perpetrators;

4. The other party bears the corresponding treatment costs.

However, the basis for these four appeals is the Ministry of Education and other nine departments, "Guiding opinions on bullying and violence against primary and secondary school students"! As a mother, the most basic requirement to deal with the perpetrators, to protect my son from harm, is it unreasonable? !

On Tuesday, the director of moral education called, but did not mention the school's handling of the four-point appeal I made.

On Thursday, the class teacher called me to go to the school for an interview. Four teachers, including the class teacher, the school secretary, the vice president of moral education, and a teacher, the male secretary came up with a slap in the face and shouted loudly, shouting from time to time, pity me. Holding the book and the pen to record the school's handling opinions, this becomes like a prisoner, no dignity, and even a point can not be remembered, because all the points around me are an excessive parent: the child is at school If the injury is in the school, the parents can't have opinions; and it is wrong to ask the other parents to apologize; at the end, I have been attacked that I am an unqualified mother.

After he spent a long time, I realized that the school had received a phone call from the Education Commission. The angry father of my family had applied to the Education Commission for support.

The point that makes my father angry is that the class teacher does not ask for the child's consent, so that my children frequently interact with the bullying children, let them play together, and take pictures that appear to be "harmonious" in the class group. .

In the case that the child has already had a stress reaction, the practice of the class teacher has worsened his trauma, just to "look like nothing" at the expense of the child's mental health, this is what Dad can't stand! On the day the child came home from school and cried and asked not to go to school again (this is also the doctor's advice of the Sixth Hospital doctor, the child's mental state is no longer able to go to school normally).

Because I received a phone call from the District Education Commission to understand the situation, the school was furious and angered. Instead of coping with the superiors to deal with the problem, it angered the parents.

The male secretary drank a lot of water because he had already licked his mouth and did not give up. It’s terrible. I’ve been so big and heavy that I’ve never been beaten like this. It’s the kind of attack that doesn’t have dirty words but is full of anger. Other teachers cooperate with body language such as nodding and whispering to create another kind of oppression.

We are obviously victims, only ask the school to handle and apologize, why should we be treated like this? If it is for my own business, I may be really embarrassed. I tried to restrain my trembling body, and I tried to courageously respond to the embarrassment of the male secretary for the sake of my son.

The kind of long hair that is partial, when he talks, shakes and falls back. He is back in the trend of the 90s. Dark circles, white eyes, mouth foam, and table...

Enough, isn't this all the feeling when my son was bullied? Sudden insults, even a 40-year-old man has a sudden death crisis, not to mention his ten-year-old child.

God! I can't stand it anymore. I put my pen up and stood up and went straight out.

When I saw the son waiting at the school gate, I still tried to hold my tears to smile at him. I am a mother. I want to fight for my child. I want to stand up when he is hurt. I want to Tell him to seek a direction of justice, I will try my best to let the sun break through the fog and illuminate the campus that should protect the children...

Every pair of mother and child is a life and death.

No matter how hard,

Mother must have a 10-year-old son

Said to the campus bullying

NO!

Sharp evaluation

Zhongguancun’s two small statement is not a response but a provocative author | Future Network commentator Zhang Jian

It’s less than a month since the nine departments jointly issued a document to rectify school violence. A new campus violence was staged in Beijing’s Zhongguancun. The realistic irony presented by this embarrassing situation is both heart-wrenching and helpless.

What we cannot understand is why the pace of resolution of the parties is so slow when bullying has become an established fact. Imagine that if the long monologue letter from the parents did not attract the strong attention of the public opinion, the resolved attitudes of the parties involved are probably "squeaky" and arrogant. But even with the strong outside view, the schools involved have still not been able to break away from the self-recognition of "high on the top".

The Zhongguancun II small statement, in the name of "victims" issued an ultimatum to the outside world.

What we can't understand is, where is the enthusiasm of Zhongguancun II? Where does his confidence come from? It stands to reason that bullying takes place on campus. In the face of parental appeals and public opinion supervision, the first thing a school should do is to apologize to everyone for their misconduct and then to inform the public about the latest developments. And the next solution, instead of rushing to warn the outside world not to post false statements. It is important to know that rumors end in publicity, and only frankness can make suspicions and excessive associations lose their breeding ground, and schools can be protected from harm in public voices.

To take a step back, if the school's reputation is really infringed, it can be pointed out in the statement. There is no need to cover it up. In doing so, it only makes people feel that the statement is not a statement, but a naked provocation against public supervision. Are we concerned that a teenager whose rights have been violated is also wrong?

The other words in the statement are also quite "meaning." The statement said that since its inception, the school has been actively striving to coordinate and objectively and fairly handle the mutual appeals and contradictions between the parents of several parties. From the public report, the school did not actually do this. Instead, it said that the matter was an "excessive joke" and made the victim's affairs smaller.

A school ignores the rights of minors in this way, and can even utter a panic of "always active efforts to coordinate." I really don't know how to teach and educate people.

In fact, school violence has been repeatedly banned, and it has a lot to do with such irresponsible schools. Before the onset of school violence, the school could not do “responsibility for keeping the soil” and indulged violence in the school. After the violence in the school, it was afraid of responsibility, and the war was a “harmony”.

This kind of behavior, campus violence does not happen is accidental, it is inevitable.

The protection of the rights and interests of young people cannot be shouted slogans. The rectification of school violence documents jointly issued by the nine departments cannot only stay on paper.

Advise the arrogant Zhongguancun two small, quickly put away the arrogant face that is also the "victim", buried his head to listen to the victim's appeal, and retrieve his infringed rights as soon as possible.

Sharp evaluation

The school indulges in bullying, is to cultivate villains! Wen | World Chinese Weekly columnist Xin Shangxie (Dr. Chinese Ancient Literature)

The growth of children depends first on family education. Parents' words and deeds influence the basic concept of children's life. Children should do wrong, parents should not criticize and educate? If a parent not only does not educate, but also simply swears and confuses, how can the child recognize the mistake of his behavior? Not only can they not be recognized, but the parents’ attitude of “protecting the scorpion” will indulge the child to continue to do evil. What is even more frightening is that if the parents themselves can't distinguish between right and wrong, it is wrong to know that their children are yelling to see other children's ass. It is wrong to not know that their children will throw the toilet paper to other children's heads. Then their children can easily grow into such a person who does not distinguish between right and wrong. People who do not distinguish between right and wrong are "bastards" in plain language.

"Discipline Rules" said "a slap in the face, swear words, the city's gas, cut the ring." The act of wanting to look at other people's ass and throwing toilet papers is undoubtedly a withdrawal.

Schools are not only a place for teaching, but also a place for education.

The so-called education is to educate people to make students truly adult, rather than grow into knowledgeable animals. Correcting the words and deeds of children growing up, especially during school, is a responsibility that schools cannot escape. How to correct is what teachers need to think seriously. Critics accuse the victim's complaints and make it easy to help solve the campus bullying? Let the vulnerable children struggle to bully the children of bullying, calm the anger of the bully and desire to bully, can solve the bullying? Is it that when the child blocking the door shouts out to look at the buttocks, the blocked child immediately let him see his ass, and this matter is solved satisfactorily? Who will grow up like this kid who likes to watch ass? Can he casually watch the ass of any classmate in the future? After that, after adulthood? Who can see who's ass on the street? This kind of adult who wants to see people's ass is a "rogue" in popular terms. The fourth-grade children don’t know if such behavior is inappropriate. Should parents and teachers tell him and let him stop this idea in the future?

Some people have criticized the victim's parents for not being able to teach their children to be bullied and to fight back. Perhaps they neglected that when the primitive people began to assemble into clan and public patriarchs to resolve disputes, humans evolved to rely on certain social organizations to resolve contradictions, instead of the animal fighting mode that you bite me and I bite you. . It is true that children need to learn the strategies and methods of self-protection in danger, but they should not be bullied because their children do not have self-protection and take the initiative to fight back. Some people even think that this child must be "indebted" before being bullied by others. If such logic works, then there is no need for law in society. Any victim can be said to be self-defeating. Everyone can also rob the rich and the bank, and who will let them have money and provoke others to be jealous? Accusing the victim is one of the cornerstones of the law of the jungle. The consequence of the prevalence of the law of the jungle is that it is difficult for people to become human beings, forcing people to abandon law, morality, civilization, and humanity to rob substances like animals. By then, every member of society will be a victim.

Campus bullying is common all over the world, and it is difficult to eliminate it, but different treatments will lead to different results. Properly handled, it helps to inhibit its occurrence and reduce the harm.

In North America, families, schools, and society have zero tolerance for campus bullying. From the beginning of kindergarten, the school repeatedly emphasized the correct behavioral norms of students. During school, there is no touch between the students. If the child does not study well, the school generally does not find a parent, but if the child is misbehaving, such as being unfriendly with the classmate, actively touching the classmate's body, saying unfriendly, etc., the school will definitely write a notice to the parents and meet with the parents. In elementary school, students know very clearly what behavior is bullying. It is not only the snoring classmates who belong to the bullying behavior, but even the cold-blooded classmates fall into this category. For example, two children are playing games, and the third child asks to join. If the game is not only played by two people, then the third child cannot be rejected, otherwise it belongs to bullying. Once the student complains that he is being bullied, the principal and the teacher will attach great importance to it and will definitely investigate and deal with it and talk about the parents of the bully. The result of the treatment may not meet the requirements of the victim's parents, but the school will never let the victim's parents settle down.

A few years ago, a high school girl in Canada was suicide by being sent to each other by the nude photos uploaded by the students and was laughed at by the classmates. After the incident, parents, teachers and the society were very sad. Schools organized school meetings on this issue several times, hoping to prevent such things from happening again, and at the same time, cyber security lectures were held to prevent children from losing personal information on the Internet. The residents of this city consciously participated in her memorial service and initiated many mourning activities. Not only to mourn her misfortune, but also to let the majority of young people know what is wrong, how to avoid themselves and avoid harming others. Encourage more love in society and focus on the growth of minors.

In recent years, several Chinese female students who have been sensational in the United States have bullied a Chinese female student. The final result is that the three principals were sentenced to 6 to 13 years in prison. In April 2015, all states in the United States passed the anti-bullying law. The bill stipulates that even if it is verbally threatened, it will be regarded as bullying; if the circumstances are serious, it will be expelled; for some habitual criminals who are badly committed, whether they are 18 or older, they will be held criminally liable.

Not paying attention to bullying is a lack of understanding of the consequences of bullying on campus, and does not place a place for the students who are being bullied. In order to let those insensitive adults have a clear understanding of this, the easiest way is to have their children stand there, and they are buckled with a bucket of toilet paper covered with urine! Then let them publish a macro theory to see if it feels like this is just an excessive joke. At the same time, we need to remind everyone that if we do not stop this "excessive joke" between children, after ten years, walking on the street, there may be a bucket of toilet paper on the face, or someone will meet Say you want to see your ass - because the palliative campus bullying is to cultivate villains.

Sharp evaluation three

Face bullying

Too civilized children, you have to teach him "barbaric" some texts | Tencent · everyone columnist Huang Ai things

I saw the campus bullying.

Definition refers to a situation in which a student is exposed to one or more student-led bullying or harassment behaviors for a long time, repeatedly, or a student is locked into a bullying target and becomes a abused student, causing serious physical and mental harm.

This matter is very bad. It is not intended to be discussed here in a criminal case. It is sanctioned by law.

I want to discuss a slightly less bullied situation.

This has always happened.

The beginning of the socialization of the baby, the beginning of their socialization, the endless problems are all competition and adaptation.

The world of children follows the more direct rules of the jungle.

What is the law of the jungle? Natural selection, big fish eat small fish, small fish eat shrimp, the same category, win the final say.

Therefore, if it is a group of animals, it is easy to suffer from disunity, and weak is easy to be bullied.

It is an advantage to have good toys in your hand, and it is also good to have good food.

It’s OK to be able to play, especially smart.

It can be tolerated, it is more wrong.

But the law of the jungle is also simple, that is, the children are in conflict. Once they encounter a strong counterattack, or they have to pay the price to be cleaned up, the problem is solved quickly.

If you are bullied and you don't understand it immediately, things will get worse and worse.

Children with weaker character will be more likely to develop bullying into bullying.

Many years ago, my neighbor's child was bitten by another baby, and he immediately taught his child to punch. I am especially envious, and I am learning alongside.

There was a brother and sister who immediately took the broken child back. When I was in elementary school, I happened to meet a group of little girls who bullied my brother and immediately rushed to open.

But our family doesn't care for the scorpion. If you are in a dispute with other children, you must be cleaned up and let yourself go home.

It feels too bad if a child is bullied and goes home without a retreat. I remember this thing so far.

I have discussed this kind of thing with my friends. No matter how strong or weak my personality is, I have all the memories of being bullied when I was young.

The memory of the friend A’s contribution is that when he was a child, he went to the suburban primary school. Every day when he paid the tuition fee, there would be a big three or five gangs blocking the road to grab. At that time, unlike the present, parents may not be able to escort every time. The children in their class collectively thought of a way: to make an appointment to return to school by car, and the money was placed in the schoolbag. When the car arrives, when the bad children are around, the little girls are responsible for carrying the bags and running back to school. The boys are left to fight or beat. This method is always useful, so he is very impressed.

Friend B recalled that when she was a child, she transferred to a new place. Two local girls chased the door to bully her. She always took off or destroyed her seedlings. She cried every day, crying for a few months, one day, looking for these two girls face to face: Are you always ruining my vegetable seedlings? The first girl denied it. Ask the second one, what the girl said is. Her two palms fanned over. Going home, her mother asked, I heard that you hit someone? She said the original, her mother said, oh, no longer pursued. When the parents of the children who were beaten came to the door, her mother sincerely apologized and beat people wrong.

Children in the kindergarten and school everyday, fight or be bullied, the civilized country has a civilized approach, the two-pole civilized area has a two-bar approach.

This kind of thing, to be reasonable, vowed to separate the right and wrong of the right and wrong of the meridian. Here, the example and the sandbox deduction event process omits five thousand words.

Say back to the adult world. Human beings are more powerful, and they have evolved into the civilized world and the laws of the jungle.

The civilized world is an ideal. Everyone has been working hard and wants to be a civilized person. However, they all said that they are ideals and have not yet been fully realized.

The cost of completely and completely civilized is very high, but Van Gogh’s fights are going to court, and the aunt’s school is full of questions. The kindergarten school is very busy. It’s not good to be civilized and not to become an animal world again. This is not good.

Then the gameplay becomes balanced and better:

Children with too hard fists have to teach him to be more civilized. Their empathy may be poor, they are easy to break the law, and they are finally getting more expensive. The children who are too civilized, you have to teach him to be more savage. If you play at least know how to run, you can't stupidly stand there and only know how to cry or reason, but also learn to ask for help.

If your family’s particularly civilized beliefs and educational outcomes are to make your baby be bullied and not beaten, and there is no other strategy to counter or turn over, or the strategy of counterattack is very expensive, this kind of education or parenting may need Corrected.

It may sound like politics is not correct. Is there any reason? In some cases, if the natural world is based on natural selection, it is this kind of individual. The socialization is not well adapted, it is rejected by the community, especially weak, and the disadvantage is very obvious.

Perhaps the bigger problem is the parents, who believe that our world is an ideal world of civilized fairy tales. Good and weak will be rewarded and saved, and evil savage will be severely punished. In the new evolutionary hypothesis written by world-renowned popular science writers, the darkest view after reading may be: goodness and evil are all kinds of strategies for survival competition in ancient times.

One of the essences of civilization may be to let us know the objective as much as possible and to understand the characteristics of human nature, instead of completely abolishing martial arts, such as giving up the instinct of self-protection and competition.

In kindergartens and schools, the concentration of children is sometimes comparable to the scenes of young animals living together, chasing and screaming, and Dong Shou’s bite is bitten, and suddenly it is a group. If you are older, you will begin to practice fighting to show off the show and prepare for the upcoming sexual maturity stage.

Many people have memories and experiences that have been bullied and bullied when they were young. In retrospect, the various strategies and strategies that have been dealt with in the meantime are the road to growth, the levels they passed alone, the wooden lanes they have played, and their experience. value. Of course, here are the children who are not too weak or even quite powerful.

The spirit of civilization is savage and its body is right. This is correct.

Parents can't cover their children for a lifetime. You have to do everything you can to let them grow up as soon as possible and develop their own survival strategies and skills.

True goodness is not weak, it is still choosing goodness after knowing evil and darkness.

The true civilized society is that most people are instincted from the lack of resources, "Why should I be good to you", and promote to a good sense of security, "Why should I be bad for you?", the loss of people's behavior must pay the price of not paying for it.

Fortunately, it is the unique civilization process of human society. The disadvantaged individuals still have growth and powerful opportunities.

Bullying does not only exist on the campus, except for all-round condemnation. If the logic of the law of the jungle is the most effective, it is the first time to give the greatest counterattack and do everything in its power to make the other party costly.

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